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One of the bravest things a leader can do is drop the fig leaves. To be the “naked and unashamed” of Genesis 2, instead of the “covered” of Genesis 3.

It’s terrifying.

No, I could never tell you that, because you might judge me. No way, I’ll never share that, because he might not respect me, or they might fire me, or she might not love me.

So we cover up, and continue to lead our students and congregations quite happily from behind our fig leaf armor.

Dr. Richard J. Mouw served as President of Fuller Theological Seminary for 20 years, and he just made a 10 minute video detailing his struggle with addiction. “I’m an alcoholic. We moved to Princeton and all I did was drink. It got really bad, in the first three weeks I realized this could be the year in which I died.” *Drops fig leaves* *Walks offstage*



One theologian says it this way: "Contrary to what people often think, the key to easing people's suffering is not in offering some insidious theodicy, but in allowing a place for people to mourn, and to meet others who know what it is to have been burned by that same black sun.  This is not about providing an answer, but rather offering a site where we can speak our suffering.  This may seem a little depressing, but such spaces are really sites of liberation and light."[1]

A church is a group of people who have stopped pretending. How can we create churches where it is safe for our young people, and our adults, and even our leaders, to drop the fig leaves and be naked and unashamed about who we really are and what we’re really like?

1. Explore the Fuller Institute for Recovery Ministry site.

There are countless books, videos, and stories that will help your community become a safe and helpful place for people in recovery.

2. Explore the The National Association for Christian Recovery site.

This is a virtual Mecca for anything regarding recovery ministry: topically organized articles, online training courses, referral lists, even video workshops.

3. Read Bridges to Grace: Innovative Approaches to Recovery Ministry (Leadership Network Innovation Series).

If you are a youth leader or senior pastor and want to be better equipped to think systematically and organizationally about recovery ministry, this book is a brilliant place to start. It highlights what’s actually working in innovative churches across the country, weaving personal accounts with practical steps.

We’d love to know:

  • What other resources have helped you drop the fig leaves, whether it’s about addiction or some other struggle?
  • What have you done to help teenagers and emerging adults share their struggles with you?

[1] Peter Rollins in a 2008 blog post. http://bit.ly/1QC3O7x

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Sometimes Christians worry so much about certainty, we forget that our greatest heroes weren’t that certain about Jesus.

Take the disciples. Throughout Matthew there is an emphasis on the twelve disciples and Jesus’ investment in them. Twelve is a perfect number. It restores the hope of Israel. It’s everything the people were hoping for.

And then it’s broken.

At the end of Matthew, in the context of Jesus’ ascension, it’s no longer the perfect twelve. It’s the eleven left. And among them, it’s not the eleven resolute disciples, it’s what Fuller President Mark Labberton calls the eleven believer-doubters.

Because there at the ascension, we find that they gathered and worshiped him “…but some doubted” (Matt 28:17). This is the context for what we often call the “Great Commission.” Turns out it was given to eleven believer-doubters. They were hanging on, but some of them just barely.

This is astoundingly good news for us. Those who are given the charge to take good news to all the world are eleven believer-doubters. Which means our name could be added to that list.

Young people all around us are wondering if they can follow Jesus despite their uncertainty. They wonder if faith is more about getting it all right or entering a mystery. They wonder if they can trust God despite their biggest questions, and if God in fact is big enough to handle those questions.

Jesus’ response seems to be a resounding “YES.”

Watch Mark Labberton’s message of this great hope we carry as followers of Jesus:


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Michael Hidalgo has been described by Margaret Feinberg as “a voice you can’t afford to miss.” He serves as lead pastor of Denver Community Church, which has grown from forty people to over two thousand under his leadership, and was my church for several years. We recently caught up with Michael to ask him a few questions about his new book, Changing Faith: Questions, Doubts & Choices About an Unchanging God (InterVarsity Press).

FYI: What have you learned about doubt and faith that prompted you to write Changing Faith?

MH: Growing up in the church, I learned “doubt is bad.” What I’ve learned since then is that doubt gives us a chance to learn, experience, and grow more than we ever could. If we don’t ask the hard questions, how can we ever expect to find deeper truth?

This is exactly why I wrote Changing Faith. What I realized was many who had the courage and conviction to voice their questions, doubt, and skepticism were not faithless but faithful. They knew the answers they had were not enough, and they trusted God enough to ask. What I saw time and again was a deeper faith as a result of asking the questions. I want to invite others to do the same.

FYI: You share about some of the struggles that followed you through middle school. Can you tell us a bit about who or what helped you through this difficult season as a young Christian in middle and high school?

MH: Well, I can tell you honestly things did not really improve. As a matter of fact, I was not crazy about God when I was in middle and high school. Looking back, I was convinced that God was angry at me and was just waiting for his opportunity to strike me dead. I walked away quietly out of sheer terror.

In this midst of this, there were a few people – and I mean few! – who did not try to rescue me or fix me or save me. There were a few who loved me for who I was in all of my “messed-upness." Looking back, those were the people who saved me from a lot of bad choices. Not because they “preached” at me about my sin, but because when things got tough, I knew I could talk to them.

FYI: Have their been any role models or mentors who have encouraged you to feel more comfortable wrestling with doubts?

MH: When I finished college, I was filled with inner turmoil and questions. Then I met a pastor who surprised me because he did not seem bothered by my questions or unease about Christianity. He listened to me, and understood my journey to that point. In fact, he affirmed my questions.

It was so disarming, it opened me up to listen to him. And rather than try to persuade me or answer all my questions, he helped me ask better questions and gave me more things to think about. He taught me how to navigate the difficult terrain of the Christian faith, rather than pretend it was simple.

Since that time I have met many others like him. They all share the same quality: They do not try to answer my questions or explain away my doubts. Rather they guide me and lead me through them. Which speaks toward their humility, and ultimately their trust in the Spirit of God to speak.

FYI: As adults we often avoid talking with young people about doubt or difficult questions because of how challenging it can be for us—our intentions may be good but we’re scared of saying the wrong thing. What would you say to encourage another pastor who might be more timid about addressing some tougher questions?

MH: First, don’t tip-toe around. It looks like you’re hiding something! Students have amazingly accurate authenticity meters. Rush right into it. Affirm it. Remember that questions are how we learn. As little kids we point at things and say, “What’s that?” That’s the first stage of learning. And the way we learn never changes, the questions just get more complex. So, first, affirm the fact they have the courage to ask questions.

Second, ask them more questions, and better questions. What I mean is there is always something driving a question. If someone asks, “How can God be all-powerful when there is so much evil in the world?” That question is coming from somewhere. Mine that out. Learn why they are asking the question. Then guide them in their thinking.

Third, remember that people today have access to all kinds of information thanks to the Internet. What we need is not more information, but to learn how to think critically and how to assess the information we have access to. We have to keep this mindset front and center.

FYI: The title of our Can I Ask That? series refers to how young people often feel like certain questions aren’t “allowed” to be asked at church. I appreciated how Changing Faith both demystifies and addresses a lot of questions that are similarly taboo among many adult Christians. As a church leader, what questions do you wish others in leadership would ask more often? What would be a “Can I ask that?” question that you think is worth confronting for a pastor or ministry leader today?

MH: The most common question I receive as a pastor is, “What do you believe about …?” What I wish is that someone would ask, “If I were to follow you around for a month, what would I say your life is about?” I say this because we are fixated on what people believe about all sorts of controversial issues. But what about how I treat my wife? Or how much money I give away? Or how I serve the poor? Or how I parent my children? Or how I deal with lust?

We need to close the gap between orthodoxy and orthopraxy and remember – we show others what we believe by what we do. We see this in the gospels over and over when people ask Jesus questions. They say, “Rabbi, what must I DO to inherit eternal life?” Notice they don’t say, “What must I believe …?” They understood that practice reveals belief far more than what we articulate.

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 “Her wallet was stolen and over $700 was spent on her credit card.”

A ministry leader stopped by recently and told me that their newest volunteer had driven a student home from weekly Bible study and realized soon after that her wallet was missing. Over the next day or two, her credit card was used for hundreds of dollars in purchases.

Neither the ministry leader nor the volunteer wanted the student who had stolen the wallet to be arrested, convicted or incarcerated. Instead, they wanted a process that would hold the young person accountable for her mistakes, facilitate healing and trust between everyone who was impacted, and develop structures that would prevent the situation from reoccurring. So, I connected the ministry leaders with a trained facilitator of restorative justice.

- Johonna Turner

 “We don’t think these students are “one of us”. Is there another church better suited for them?” 

While working as a youth pastor in a local church, a few of our students invited some unchurched high school friends to youth group, which raised concerns among several elderly members and parents in our congregation. Our traditional ethnic church was experiencing both a generational and cultural divide. There was hurt and misunderstanding all around. We worked to educate and bring understanding, but some students left the church, never to return. We needed different tools to help walk our church through these conflicts.

- Mary Glenn


Restorative justice resources were needed in both stories. Our hunch is that others might benefit from these important tools too.

Through restorative justice, students can identify and resolve conflicts, restore values, repair relationships, and establish dignity while learning the building blocks of peacemaking. This is the first article in a two part series that will explain the restorative justice (RJ) model and suggest ways to integrate it into your youth ministry/group context. Through our combined experiences of youth worker, educator, researcher, and police chaplain, we have seen restorative justice used as a powerful tool for reconciliation.

What is restorative justice?

Living in a judicial society, it can be challenging to reconcile biblical and societal justice. How can we teach youth to embrace and live out the justice of Jesus?

Harm is a key concept in restorative justice. Wrongdoing is understood as harm—a violation of people and of relationships, rather than as crime—a violation of rules and laws.

The RJ approach emphasizes repairing harm and involving all affected parties in creating healing solutions. A practice or process based on RJ accomplishes three broad goals:

  1. It addresses both needs—the needs of those who have been hurt, as well as those who hurt them.
  2. It provides accountability for wrongdoers so that they are empowered to take responsibility and make amends.
  3. It compels communities to work together in resolving conflict and harm together.

The development of RJ can be traced back to indigenous communities around the world, as well as Mennonite communities in North America.[1] It was initially conceived as an alternative response to individual acts of wrongdoing. However, it is now increasingly embraced as an approach to facilitating wholeness within groups and whole communities.


Does RJ really work? What does social science research tell us?
  • As a whole, existing research confirms that RJ processes prevent further wrongdoing more effectively than criminal justice. Restorative justice is the basis of New Zealand's entire juvenile justice system and is increasingly used as an alternative to standard legal proceedings as well. Adults who participated in New Zealand’s restorative justice conferences were 23% less likely to commit another offense than those who went through the criminal justice system.[2]
  • Restorative justice helps people who have been wronged experience a stronger sense of justice. An analysis of the 22 key studies measuring victim satisfaction found that, “Compared to victims who participated in the traditional justice system, victims who participated in restorative processes were significantly more satisfied.”[3] Howard Zehr explains this is because RJ directly addresses the core needs that arise when people are violated—the need for safety, answers, voice, empowerment, vindication, and validation.[4]                                          
  • Restorative practices help young people learn new skills for creating and maintaining healthy relationships. At one urban middle school in Michigan, “Nearly 90% of participating students reported learning new skills in their restorative experiences, and 86% reported using those skills to peacefully resolve or avert conflicts after their restorative interventions.”[5]

What is the biblical and theological framework for RJ?[6]

According to theologian Derek Flood, the primary metaphor of sin in the New Testament is one of sickness, not crime. In essence, a crime is a symptom of a deeper sickness. This means that in addition to one taking responsibility for our own behaviors, we must also analyze the negative behavior and attempt to understand and address its root causes. Flood uses the example of a bully whose behavior is rooted in feelings of insecurity and worthlessness. Focusing on healing can lead to restoration.[7]

This focus on healing and restoration lies at the heart of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. “All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation” (2 Corinthians 5:18).

Matthew 5:21-26 provides detailed instructions on how to resolve and find healing in our conflicts. “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift” (v.23).

This reconciliation is a form of justice that leads to peace. The Hebrew word translated as peace in the Old Testament is shalom, and in the New Testament Greek it is eirene. Shalom connotes a sense of wholeness, well-being and prosperity. Likewise eirene refers to wholeness, the restoration of relationship and healing. Together, these two words appear over 550 times in the Bible. These comprehensive concepts of God’s peace and justice express society as God intends it.[8]

Restoration and reconciliation begin with understanding how we identify, label, and value one another. Long-time gang worker Father Gregory Boyle starts his book with the invitation to see this population differently: “If there is a fundamental challenge within these stories, it is simply to change our lurking suspicion that some lives matter less than other lives.”[9] Each of us is made in God’s image, and this is the first label we must apply to every person in front of us.


What does restorative justice look like?

Two RJ techniques are peacemaking circles and restorative chats.

A peacemaking circle is a structured dialogue process that brings people together to understand each other, work through conflict, and learn from one another. Literally sitting in a circle provides equal footing as well as connection.

Picture this:

You and the students in your youth group are seated in a circle of chairs. You light a candle and read a passage of scripture such as 1 Peter 2:5 (“You like living stones are being built together...”). You hold your talking piece, a small stone, in your hand and explain that like stones, we are designed to work together and become more beautiful over time in God’s hands. Next, you introduce the guidelines of the circle: “Respect the talking piece (only speak when you have it), speak from your heart, listen respectfully, and maintain confidentiality. Next, you ask each student to name a value that they would like to express during your time together. One student says honesty. Another says respect. Another says love. These are the values at the foundation of your circle. When the stone returns to you, you ask another question. You might ask the group to share their perspectives on a concern (e.g. the relationships among youth and adults in your church) or share stories of personal experiences (e.g. a time that you felt excluded from a group or a time that you felt like you truly “belonged”). You share your own response to each question first, modeling vulnerability.

While organizing and leading circles to address deep conflicts or repair harm requires training, it is fairly simple to set up and facilitate this kind of talking circle for many situations.

Restorative chats are informal conversations designed to help people address their own harmful behavior and help people harmed by their actions.[10] Whereas circles are formal, structured group dialogues, restorative chats are typically brief one-on-one conversations between a teacher and a student, or a youth pastor and a young person or volunteer, for example.

Picture this:

A member of your youth group used Twitter to publicize an embarrassing story about another group member (shared in confidence during your last group session). You speak with the student whose personal story was shared, asking a series of questions that help her to talk about what happened and what might make things better. Later, you talk with the student who shared the story and ask him a series of questions to help him to reflect on the hurt he caused and how he can make amends.

Restorative Questions: To help those harmed by others’ actions:[11]

  1. What did you think when you realized what had happened?
  2. What impact did this incident have on you and others?
  3. What has been the hardest thing for you?
  4. What do you think needs to happen to make things right?

Restorative Questions: To help those who harmed others:

  1. Tell me more about what happened.              
  2. What were you thinking about at the time?                            
  3. Who has been affected by what you have done?                                        
  4. What do you think you need to do to make things right?                                           


Bringing restorative justice in your youth group

While there are a broad range of methods for restorative justice, there is one underlying philosophy: Justice is restorative when we focus on making things right. The ultimate mission is to bring connection, healing, and shalom to places of disconnection, trauma, and wounding.

  • Facilitate peacemaking circles: When someone feels offended by another’s actions, lead students through a process of repair and healing utilizing the peacemaking circle.[12]
  • Identify and describe how labels and beliefs about others might keep us from being in good relationships with each other.
  • Teach about the power of giving and receiving forgiveness.
  • Model and encourage taking responsibility for mistakes. (e.g. not following through on your commitments, not showing up when you said you would.)
  • Provide outlets for adults and young people to make amends when they have harmed others and to re-enter the community in healthy ways. (e.g. If a young person is disruptive in youth group or if an adult speaks to young people disrespectfully, facilitate a process of honest conversation and forgiveness).


Action steps
  1. Get training in restorative justice (in prevention and response) for yourself, adult volunteers, and youth. Helpful links are provided in the “learn more” action step below for more information, training and research on RJ.

  2. Be an example! Teach students by modeling RJ when conflict or harm happens.
  3. Share your experiences. There are few examples of RJ among church youth groups. As you implement RJ into your youth groups please share stories and outcomes with us and others who are furthering this movement.
  4. Learn more. Here are some resources on restorative justice and related approaches:

Note: In part 2 of this article series, we will address issues regarding re-integration, collaboration, and systemic impact.



[2] New Zealand Ministry of Justice, “Reoffending analysis for restorative justice cases 2008 - 2011,” New Zealand Ministry of Justice Web site.

[3] Jeff Latimer, Craig Dowden, and Danielle Muise, “The Effectiveness of Restorative Justice Practices: A Meta-Analysis,” The Prison Journal Vol. 85 No. 2, June 2005, 127-144.

[4] Howard Zehr, “What Does Justice Require for Victims?” Eastern Mennonite University, May 17, 2013. Lecture.

[5] Abbey Porter, “Restorative Practices in Schools: Research Reveals Power of Restorative Approach, Part II,Restorative Practices E-Forum June 6, 2007, International Institute of Restorative Practices.

[6] Several denominations and Christian organizations (I.e. the United Methodist Church, the Christian Reformed Church, the Presbyterian Church USA, the Catholic Church and the Mennonite Church) have adopted restorative justice and invite their members to do the same.

[7] Derek Flood, Healing the Gospel, (Eugene, Oregon: Cascade Books, 2012), 17.

[8] Howard Zehr, Changing Lenses: A New Focus for Crime and Justice, (Scottsdale, PA: Harold Press, 1990), 130-132, 153.

[9] Fr. Greg Boyle, Tattoos on the Heart (New York, NY: Free Press, 2010), .xiii.

[10] International Institute for Restorative Practices; Samantha White, “Time to Think: Using Restorative Questions.” Restorative Works Learning Network, January 2012.

[11] Samantha White, “Time to Think: Using Restorative Questions.” Restorative Works Learning Network, 2012.

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After the Vietnam War, many service members returned back to their hometowns only to be spit on amidst a flurry of scathing remarks. That rarely happens today, as that greeting has generally been replaced with a warm, "Thank you for your service."

That’s nice, but it may not be enough. It is time for us to take a step back to reflect on what we are communicating with this message.

Why “Thank You” isn’t enough

In the statement, "Thank you for your service," we really have not communicated solidarity or support for these young persons. We are more like baristas passing out a "thank you" instead of a latte, sending our troubled and hurting service members out the door alone.

It's time for this to change. As a military chaplain, I hope to offer some practical ideas to address the gap in strong relational support networks for young people entering military service. They need help creating and supporting a sticky web of relationships for before, during, and after their service.

Sharing our pain, sharing our joy

There is one evening in my life that I will never forget. I was sitting in the house of an acquaintance from church. It was an old house, perfect for college students. News had just gotten out to the church that my high school sweetheart had been killed in a car accident. Her tires slipped on some black ice in a storm, and the Thanksgiving dinner we shared with family would be the last time I would share how thankful I was for this person I cherished so deeply.

My friend was sitting on a couch across the room from me. I was sitting in an armchair, a manifestation of my emotional state of feeling alone. I was broken. I needed help.

Much of the conversation is a blur to me now. My friend tried to empathize with me in my pain. He tried to connect with the lost boy in the body of a grown man across the room, but was struggling to find the right words. He was certainly not alone. The number of people who came to me with nice words in the weeks and months following the accident was staggering. Unfortunately, most of the sentiments offered felt more like awkward reminders of the pain that I didn’t need to be reminded about.

Then my friend said something different to me. His words felt like a cool, moist breeze on my dry and cracking heart.

I know this isn’t much, but I want to be in this with you. I want your pain to be my pain, and I want my joy to be your joy.”

Those words would change my life. He meant everything he said.

My friend’s witness to the self-giving love of Christ and commitment to support me through thick and thin has taught me a great deal about what it means to follow Jesus. Most specifically in my own life, my friend’s words have fueled my calling to being an Army chaplain on many days that I doubt that call. I remember back to that evening he committed to stand beside me through the challenges that lay ahead, and I am reminded of those young service members in uniform that similarly need the love and support of Christ in the flesh.

Help for teenagers entering the military

The truth is that the transition from being a teenager into the military is rough. It is rough for many reasons (leaving home and enduring boot camp are two of the big ones), but the challenge becomes even more pronounced for service members when they deploy and are engaged in combat.

Younger service members who deploy are more likely to incur a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI), to suffer from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), to be susceptible to drug and alcohol addiction, and to attempt suicide than their older counterparts.[1] Support is needed for these young persons. 

This is where the Sticky Faith community kicks in. In a report from the RAND Center for Military Health Policy Research, it was determined that young service members and veterans need support, but that many are not seeking out the appropriate resources. Thus, the study suggests a need for lay-providers (friends, family, and clergy) to also be trained to support young men and women experiencing the costly effects of military service.[2] In other words, there is a need for our Sticky Faith webs to be just as developed and present in the lives of our youth entering the military as those going into the workforce and college.

Building a 5:1 community

One of the most practical ways that we can offer our support to young people entering and returning from military service is to integrate a model of 5:1 community. Based on FYI’s Sticky Faith research and the work of Chap Clark, 5:1 refers to the strategy of inviting five adults from your community to support every one young person. It is a concept that emphasizes the importance of mentorship and discipleship in the lives of youth, fivefold.

As young adults wrestle with the challenges of military service, a web of supporters from home that is committed to supporting young service members is invaluable. However, I often find that adults don’t really know what to do to live out that support. They lack ideas for how to respond to those young people along the way.

Consider using the following idiom (typically used in emergency scenarios) as a way to think about how to effectively support those service members to whom you have committed your support:

Look, listen, and feel. 
  1. Look. There are two ways to “look” into the lives of those young service members we support. The first is through time spent in face-to-face interactions. These times are precious and can be rare. If the young person is home on leave or holiday, take advantage of every minute you can get to communicate that you are still “in this” with the person. Communicate to them through words and actions that you are truly committed to supporting their spiritual life of discipleship. When you can’t see them literally face-to-face, make use of video calling applications to bring a visual connection to your long-distance conversations.

    The second way is to connect to the young person via the social media portals that they utilize and, quite literally, look into their life. In today’s world, a person’s social media interactions can say a lot about how they are doing. If you are committed to supporting this young person, commit to keeping up with their life to communicate with them in relevant ways and show that you are paying attention to what’s happening to them in this new season.
  2. Listen. I was recently at an event speaking with families of deployed soldiers, and the one piece of advice that I gave to everyone in the room upon their soldier’s arrival home was this: listen. It is incredible just how much a person can heal from internal wounds and difficult experiences if we encourage that person to share his or her story. Unfortunately, often times service members are unable to talk about their stories for one reason or another; but if the people who are committed to supporting these young persons are committed to listening to their stories on an ongoing basis, they are more likely to feel our support when it is needed. Here are a few tips while you listen:
  • Remember that you never will completely know what someone else is going through. Don’t try to communicate to a hurting service member that you “know” what she or he is going through, but instead let them know that you are in it with them.
  • If you’re a parent, try to listen openly to your daughter or son without letting your own emotional reactions to their experiences hinder the healing and restoration process. Sometimes parents’ emotional response can actually shut down important sharing.
  • If you’re a ministry leader, it is okay not to have all the answers. Sometimes the most theologically sound answer to a difficult question in regard to violence or war is, “I don’t know…”
  1.  Feel. If you don’t feel the effects of the experiences the young person to whom you are committed is going through, repeat steps #1 and #2. When we do feel the effects of the young service member’s experiences, and commit to sharing the joys and pains of life with this person, then our emotions and gut reactions can fuel a life of deep and committed prayer. In the words of Oswald Chambers, “Prayer does not fit us for the greater work; prayer is the greater work.”[3]

Healthy reintegration into the community and into family life mentally, emotionally, and spiritually necessitates a robust web of support for young people in the military. I often receive mailers from the Wounded Warriors Project, and on the back of the envelopes read the words, "The greatest casualty is being forgotten."[4] As families and churches connected to military service members, we have a responsibility to our young brothers and sisters in Christ not to forget them. In fact, not only do we have a responsibility not to forget these young people, we have a responsibility to intentionally remember them.

Action points
  • Think about the young people you know who are heading into military service. How can you and your church community provide a consistent web of support around them as they go?
  • Similarly, what young people do you know who have returned from serving, in particular those who deployed overseas? Who could be part of a support network for these vulnerable young people?
  • If you are a parent whose son or daughter is heading into the military, talk with them about their support network of adults, and offer to help them build this network prior to service. You may want to reach out to these adults directly, and share this article as a resource.

[1] Gallup Poll: Deployment Taking Greatest Toll on Young Service Members, 2010.

[2] “Invisible Wounds of War: Psychological and Cognitive Injuries, Their Consequences, and Services to Assist Recovery” edited by Terri Tanielian and Lisa H. Jaycox, 2008, p 109.

[3] Oswald Chambers, My Utmost for His Highest, October 17 devotional entry.

[4] www.woundedwarriorproject.org

The Fuller Youth Institute is excited to announce our newest team member: Dr. Steve Argue, a thought leader and researcher with decades of on-the-ground ministry experience, most recently with Mars Hill Bible Church in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

Steve will serve a hybrid role with FYI and Fuller Theological Seminary, teaching masters and doctoral-level students as an assistant professor in the Youth, Family, and Culture program in the School of Theology. With the FYI team, Steve will serve as an Applied Research Strategist, pioneering innovative theology and theory channeled into practical ministry resources. Steve’s role poises Fuller to exponentially impact leaders worldwide, in particular through this unique partnership between academic programs and FYI.

No stranger to FYI, Steve has been part of our Advisory Council, Sticky Faith speaking and coaching team, and is the Coaching Director for our Sticky Faith Cohorts. We sat down with Steve to ask him about his new role on Fuller’s campus.

Q: What can you tell us about the pathway that led you to this role at Fuller?

I have always believed in the intersection of academic discipline and real-life ministry experience. I think the best ministry and the most effective teaching/training happens where these two worlds meet. Over the years, I have developed as a ministry leader while maturing as an academic researcher. My research reflects my commitment to young people and my desire to better understand their spiritual journeys.

One of the practical ways this intersection played out for me has been through introducing FYI to the church where I pastored—Mars Hill Bible Church in Grand Rapids. Over the past five years, I have been invited by FYI to train and coach churches, speak into research projects, and serve on the Advisory Council. My involvement with FYI also allowed me to meet some of the tremendous Fuller faculty, like Dr. Pam King, Dr. Scott Cormode, Dr. Chap Clark, and Dr. Tommy Givens. All these experiences and relationships only grew my deep respect and love for Fuller. When this position was posted, it just seemed like a great fit. The whole candidating process has only confirmed this. I couldn’t be more excited!

Q: So you’ve been doing some pretty intriguing research lately; can you tell us a little about that?

Yes, my doctoral research focused on how undergraduate students who attend public universities perceive and work through spiritual struggle. My work has helped me better understand their experiences of spiritual struggle and the resources students need as they work through their struggles. More broadly, I think this work can contribute to us better understanding emerging adults and faith, as we give voice to their journeys. I hope it can provide more meaningful ways for faith communities to support emerging adults in one of the most important periods in their lives. They also tend to be the most misunderstood people in our churches today. I hope my research can contribute to shifting people’s attitudes and relationships with emerging adults.

Q: From your research and experience, what are you hoping to bring to Fuller as a professor?

I’m really excited to contribute the ongoing reputation of Fuller’s of commitment to youth, family, and culture. Dr. Chap Clark and Dr. Kara Powell have done an amazing job, and I think together we’re going to train and inspire emerging ministry leaders who feel a deep calling to advocate for young people.

I am inspired by the value and support Fuller places on interdisciplinary scholarship. I’m excited to learn from and work with some amazing colleagues who can deepen our understanding of young people and the ways they work out their spirituality.

I believe the classroom can be sacred space. Students spill into these spaces with incredible stories, experiences, hopes, passions, and ideas. Meaning can be made here and dialogue can happen that has the potential to evoke game-changing ideas. I also believe that seminary students are forming themselves, and I hope to get to know them and to be a support to them as they invest themselves at Fuller. Current and future Fuller students: I can’t wait to meet you.

Q: What are you hoping to bring to FYI and the youth and emerging adult ministry world through your role as Applied Research Strategist?

Over the years I have been drawn to FYI’s commitment of “research into resources.” FYI has led the way in thoughtful, responsive ministry in the youth, family, and culture conversation. I’m excited about the research we can do to understand the formational trajectory from youth through emerging adulthood, along with finding ways to communicate findings in helpful ways to ministry leaders. I particularly believe that we can reimagine new avenues for supporting and inspiring ministry leaders toward better, more responsive approaches for youth and emerging adult formation and advocacy. Let’s go!


Learn more about studying at Fuller Theological Seminary in a Youth, Family, and Culture program.

Read some of Steve’s articles for FYI:

From Faith to Faithing

Spiritual Growth Through Self-Authorship

Processes, Pitfalls, and Aha’s of Implementing Sticky Faith

Reimagining the Gospel in Relationship


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I’ve made a big mistake with my previous short-term mission trips. I’ve always thought of them more as group experiences rather than individual journeys for each kid.

It’s easy to do when you’ve got 32 college students for a single weekend building a house in Mexico. Or 18 high school students digging wells for a week in Guatemala. There are so many details to organize that if the entire group seems to learn—and make it back home safely—the trip feels like a success.

A few weeks ago Compassion International invited our family to Brazil as part of our partnership with their Step Into My Shoes project. Experiencing the trip with my own kids changed everything.

As a parent, I was more tuned in to each of our kids’ unique needs and personalities. As a parent, I paid far more attention to how God worked through each of them as individuals than I ever have as a youth pastor. Even though none of us spoke Portuguese, I watched them communicate in their own ways with the people they were meeting.

Nathan, our 6’2” 14 year-old, quickly connected with Brazilian boys on the soccer field, as well as through playing guitar.

Krista, our leadership-minded 12 year-old, bonded fast with Brazilian girls through volleyball. 

Jessica, our more introverted 9 year-old, connected with smaller groups of kids her age, who loved the way she listened to them (even though she couldn’t understand them) and took pictures (a hobby she loves).

As a mom, my radar was tuned in to their individual approaches to culture and life, how their individual personalities best interacted with others, and how their individual lives were changed.

Looking back on all the youth ministry trips I’ve led, I wish I had done a better job…

  • BEFORE: Helping kids identify their unique personalities and gifts. Some ideas here.
  • DURING: Debriefing with them each day about how God used those personalities and gifts in unique ways.
  • AFTER: Once we get back home, helping them discover how God can continue to use both their gifts and what they learned from our missional work in our own community.

Whether you’re a parent or a church leader, what can you do this summer to help every young person you’re around be sensitive to how God wants to use them individually to change the world around them?


Check out the Step Into My Shoes Project

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Today’s guest blog is by Shane Stacey. Shane has been involved in student ministry for 19 years. He currently serves as the EFCA's national director of ReachStudents. He lives with his wife and three children in Minneapolis, MN.

I serve in a student ministry that just did a series on doubt. We loved it. Here are a few things we learned that might be helpful as you consider leading your own.


Flipping the normal lecture/lab format

Our student ministry normally starts with a large group teaching then breaks into smaller discussion groups. For this series, we flipped it and started with discussion groups that allowed students to express their own opinions and thoughts on a particular issue, then came back together for a large group time.

Students loved it.

In fact, it seemed that they engaged more deeply in the larger group teaching because they had already articulated their own questions to their friends.

Robust dialogue

This series stirred up A LOT of robust dialogue. It was like shaking a bottle of soda and finally pulling off the cap. Deep questions, confusing emotions, and conflicting thoughts quickly surfaced, and it became clear that many students had already been wrestling with these issues on their own.

Students also learned how to express disagreement with one another in a way that showed respect and dignity.

Kitchen table conversations

Several parents contacted the student ministries pastor to let them know that their son or daughter was coming home fired up and asking questions they had never voiced before. Some families found themselves staying up late around the kitchen table for hours talking about the questions. Most of the parents were thrilled to hear their son/daughter wrestling so hard with such foundational faith issues.

One dad mentioned that it woke him up to the reality that his son was no longer a child. He said, “I realized that I’ve not shifted my parenting. My son has his own thoughts about his faith and I need to adjust how I come alongside him in this season.”

Exposing their worldview

This series did a great job of exposing what students really believe. And it revealed just how much they are being influenced by culture. It also helped expose how many students actually know what they believe and, more importantly, why they believe it. Our series on doubt has helped us better understand what we need to focus more on in the coming year, and affirm where the gospel is taking root and growing.

Do your homework

We used the Can I Ask That? book as a framework. It gave us a great foundation, and I decided to do some additional reading on each subject before the sessions. Honestly, it was great for me. It exposed me to new ideas and new ways of thinking about each particular issue, which allowed me to dialogue along with the students.

Prepare your adult team

You’ll also want to do your homework so you can best prepare your team. Several of our adults had not thought through these issues very deeply themselves, or had not done so in a very long time. As a result, the depth of the students’ questions caught them off-guard. To help equip each parent, we supplemented them with additional resources on each topic.

Don’t short change the dialogue

A few of our adults were tempted to switch into “teaching mode.” They didn’t grasp that helping students articulate and express their own thinking is the critical step to learning. Be careful not to jump right into teaching. Dialogue first.

Two weeks per question

If we were to do it again, we’d spend two weeks on each question. The first week would focus on dialogue, and in the second week we’d spend more time addressing specific questions/thoughts that came up from a biblical perspective. I discovered that I needed to frame the question, let students express their current position, consider various ways to approach each question, and then see what the scriptures had to say about the issue. It’s a lot to try to do in one night. Two is better.

Understand the point

We continued to remind ourselves that the point of the series was not to answer every question definitively. We wanted to help students realize it was OK to ask tough questions. And, when they do, we’ll do our best to wrestle with them deeply. However, we can’t say everything there is to say about every question. These are topics we will all continue to wrestle with throughout our lives.


If you’ve used Can I Ask That? What have you learned?


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If there’s one thing my friends and family around the country know about California these days, it’s that we are in a severe drought. Some outside folks seem even more aware than most Californians of the extent of the situation. Closer to home, more and more people are waking up to the reality that our water is running short.

It’s tempting in the midst of that narrative to buy into the story of scarcity about everything. After all, our world feeds on this narrative. There’s not enough! is the cry we hear all around us, whether it’s about water, money, education, Christians in America, or a hundred other things.

A question presents itself in the midst of all this "not-enough" talk: Can the good news of God’s abundance be trusted in the face of the story of scarcity?

The question comes from theologian Walter Brueggemann in an essay entitled The Liturgy of Abundance, The Myth of Scarcity. [[Later published (2000) in Brueggemann’s Deep Memory, Exuberant Hope: Contested Truth in a Post-Christian World.]] I make myself re-read this powerful reminder every now and then. Brueggemann presses us to consider God’s shocking alternative to the myth of scarcity. Take a moment to read it yourself right now.

Bruegemann was recently at Fuller for a fantastic conference on justice, grace, and law, and I was reminded that this message influences the way we think about the world’s problems and our responses to injustice, poverty, and lack of resources. If there’s enough to go around, what can we do about the obvious scarcity we see?

Last year I was able to travel to the Dominican Republic with Compassion International as part of a project we’ve recently released called Step Into My Shoes. Together with my daughter Anna, I witnessed the work of God proclaiming enough in places of true scarcity.

Scarcity of clean water.

Scarcity of livable income.

Scarcity of decent housing.

Scarcity of power to change circumstances.

We saw so many reasons to scream “Not enough!” And yet, God’s work through local churches and the partnership of folks like Compassion speaks a different narrative to a hopeful people.

Brueggemann prophetically reminds us, “We have a love affair with ‘more’—and we will never have enough.” At the root of it, we don’t trust the story of generous abundance laid out for us in scripture. Rather, we buy the shadow-story of scarcity, the line that there’s not enough. It doesn’t matter what “it” is—money, time, prestige, people who care about what we think, kids who show up at youth group—our tendency is to say, “Not enough!”

The story of God speaks in opposition to this narrative. Brueggemann writes, “The Bible starts out with a liturgy of abundance. Genesis 1 is a song of praise for God’s generosity … [it] affirms generosity and denies scarcity.” 

From manna in the wilderness to a small lunch feeding thousands, the story goes on and on proclaiming that “the gifts of life are indeed given by a generous God. It’s a wonder, it’s a miracle, it’s an embarrassment, it’s irrational, but God’s abundance transcends the market economy.

Here’s the one line we have to remember in the face of all of this:

There is enough.

In the midst of our temptation to give in to fear or to the security of comfort, we’re invited to embrace these truths from scripture. Our God is outrageously generous.

There is enough.

Sometimes we need a story that reminds us that the opposite of poverty is not wealth, it’s discovering God’s idea of “enough.” That’s my hope for my family, my ministry, and yours. Let’s live as if this story is true!


Take a look at the Step Into My Shoes Family Toolkit or church-based Group Starter Kit for help taking a next step on this journey of discovering “enough.” 

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The most important question to ask before serving


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Why are we serving?

Our family was finishing up frozen yogurt, and it was time to get to the heart of our conversation about our upcoming service trip. Thanks to FYI’s exciting partnership with Compassion International on a new family-based project called Step Into My Shoes, the Powell family was going to Brazil to experience Compassion’s ministry firsthand.

Because of our research on justice and service, Dave and I wanted our kids to be more prepared than simply making sure they have the right clothes, immunizations, and bug repellent. During our first Brazil prep meeting, we learned about the history, culture, and people of Brazil. We created a trivia game, rewarding correct answers with York Peppermint candies (a Powell favorite).

Having understood more about Brazil, this second prep meeting was devoted to what I think is the most important question about our trip: why are we serving? Our kids had various answers, ranging from “because we get to miss school” (at least they are honest) to “so we can learn about a new culture.” Reading Jesus’ teachings about “salt and light” helped deepen our conversation, and explore more Jesus-y flavored motivations.

We decided to create a single sentence together as a family. One sentence that we could memorize and turn to when our Brazil experience got bumpy. After several edits and iterations, here’s what the five of us came up with:

“We’re going to Brazil to learn firsthand about a new culture and people because we feel called to spread God’s love.”

The five Powells feel incredibly blessed to get to go to Brazil together. We had wanted to do a cross-cultural service experience in 2015 and God answered our prayers in a bigger way than we ever expected. But also in seasons when your and my family’s service experiences are less than 5 miles from home, it’s always a good idea to talk together as a family about why we serve. Even if it’s a 40-second conversation in our minivan as we’re driving to the local shelter for folks who are homeless.

I’m curious: What do you do to help young people—or your whole family—remember WHY they are involved in God’s justice work?


Find out more about the Step Into My Shoes family toolkit


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