Cinderella Ate My Daughter

February 9, 2011

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A few different folks have sent me this review on Slate of a new book by Peggy Orenstein entitled “Cinderella Ate My Daughter: Dispatches from the Front Lines of the New Girlie-Girl Culture“.  I haven’t read the book yet, but this review makes some interesting points.

Here is one of the more interesting excerpts from the review:

“She interviews the Disney exec responsible for the birth of the Disney Princess concept that, 10 years later, has landed some permutation of Ariel, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, or Belle in every American household containing a girl-child between the ages of 2 and 10. The exec suggests that Disney princess props allow girls to expand their imaginations. Instead, Orenstein finds that during a drawing exercise at her daughter’s preschool, boys imagined themselves as everything from animals to insects, snack foods to superheroes, while girls were uniformly princesses, fairies, butterflies, or ballerinas.”

As a mother of 2 daughters, we have let princess & fairy products into our house.  And even some Barbies too.  But this quote reminds me how important it is to continue to stretch our girls – to shoot hoops with them (something I did last night), to hike with them, and to do all we can to stretch their imagination and their sense of themselves.

©2011 Fuller Youth Institute

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  • http://conversationsonthefringe.com Chris Schaffner

    I have always thought of my oldest daughter as a princess. She embodies everything a princess should embody. She is proper, polite, concerned with others, beautiful, confident, etc.

    When she started playing football this year at during recess I struggled internally with “MY” indentity of my daughter. She not only enjoys football but tends to run circles around them. She led her class in successful picks for the football season and usually comes home with bruises and grass stains on her jeans.

    She is becoming herself and I love our discussions about who’s the best quarterback playing today or who much the Cubs will suck this year (I’m a Cubs fan, she’s Cardinal fan). But she still embodies those same traits that a princess but she is becoming more than one dimensional.

    We are trying to set aside our “will” for our kids and encourage them to be who the are and to explore that and have fun doing so and I think that maybe that honors God as well.

    Thanks for the post Kara.

  • Karin

    I grew up in East Germany (before the wall came down) – out of reach of Disney, et al. And all my sisters and girlfriends ever wanted to be were princesses or queens, or models on a magazine. Go figure.

  • Cheryl Hansen

    I kind of struggled w/ something similar when my daughter started showing a preference for hockey over figure skating. She has really blossomed while playing hockey. I thought she use to be fragile but boy she can sure hold her own. We get comments on how well she skates too. The figure skating paid off but the most important is she is having fun.

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